Bossed Up or Bitched Out

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coketalk: My vagina is not a hole through which respect passes, nor do I need you to validate my sexual behavior. Why is that so hard for some boys to understand? #GoFuckYourself ♡ — coketalk.tumblr.com I completely agree with Coketalk.  I was kind of offended when I saw this picture.  Just because I am a woman who has sex doesn’t mean that I don’t respect myself.  Just because I am a woman who has sex doesn’t mean that I am a slut.  The double-standard by which society lives is ridiculous and outdated.  When a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he’s seen as cool or all of his friends are impressed.  But if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys, she’s seen as a slut.  Sex is sex is sex and if someone is going to judge me because of how many people I’ve slept with, then that person really has some thinking to do. Dear guys, please realize that girls have sexual desires too.  Don’t base your respect level for someone on how many people they’ve slept with.  Base it on personality or something else equally as important.

coketalk:

My vagina is not a hole through which respect passes, nor do I need you to validate my sexual behavior. Why is that so hard for some boys to understand?

#GoFuckYourself ♡

— coketalk.tumblr.com

I completely agree with Coketalk.  I was kind of offended when I saw this picture.  Just because I am a woman who has sex doesn’t mean that I don’t respect myself.  Just because I am a woman who has sex doesn’t mean that I am a slut.  The double-standard by which society lives is ridiculous and outdated.  When a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he’s seen as cool or all of his friends are impressed.  But if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys, she’s seen as a slut.  Sex is sex is sex and if someone is going to judge me because of how many people I’ve slept with, then that person really has some thinking to do.

Dear guys, please realize that girls have sexual desires too.  Don’t base your respect level for someone on how many people they’ve slept with.  Base it on personality or something else equally as important.

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  6. anhonestdrug reblogged this from typhonatemybaby and added:
    Yeah, it’s kind of ‘be yourself, but not if that means I identify you as a slut’. God, I hate this kind of thing.
  7. typhonatemybaby reblogged this from anhonestdrug and added:
    correct me if I’m wrong but isnt it a little ridiculous for the person in the photo to preach about respecting oneself...
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    Tumblr.SOUNDS LEGITNo,
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    My vagina is not a hole through which respect passes, nor do I need you to validate my sexual behavior. Why is that so...
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    He’s not talking about that kind of person. He’s talking about the people who use their bodies in a harmful way to get...
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    Girls (and guys for that matter) don’t want to date people who make them feel “slutty” for doing what they want to do...
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    Tell ‘em, CokeTalk.
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    commentary.JESUS...BOYFRIEND.HE’S...YOU’.”Srsly?
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    not see this before? This (response)
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    I have loads of respect for my phenom vaj and I will stuff as many dicks in it as I like, spank you very much. LONG LIVE...
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